Dear Abby: Anniversary plans suddenly include woman's in-laws

A couples plans for a private 25th anniversary trip to Hawaii are complicated when the husband involves his in-laws, prompting a need for resolution in Dear Abby.

• The couple, celebrating their 25th anniversary, discussed a trip to Hawaii but faced complications when the husband consulted his brother and sister-in-law without his wifes agreement.
• The husband suggested Hawaii to his sister-in-law, raising concerns about the in-laws joining them on the trip, which the wife had not anticipated or planned for.
• This situation highlights communication issues in marriage, as the couple had initially envisioned a private celebration for their milestone anniversary.