Dear Abby: I said I'd be in their wedding, but I'm so upset by the processional plan

In a recent Dear Abby letter, a couple expresses distress over their role as the best couple in a friends wedding, revealing complicated emotions tied to family issues.

• A couple, married for 25 years, was asked to be the best couple in a friends wedding, which has been postponed for a year due to family issues.
• The wedding, originally set to take place two years ago, is now approaching, but the couple feels upset about the processional plan.
• The emotional turmoil faced by the couple highlights the complexities of wedding planning, especially in light of past family traumas, including a Stroke incident.